Groups & Workshops

You and your partner will meet with a counselor individually for 6 one hour long sessions to enhance your relationship. Topics include attachment, intimacy, emotional connection, improving communication and more. This might be a good fit for you if you’ve been wanting to deepen your relationship, prepare for a transition (study abroad, long distance after graduation, etc.), or just learn healthier ways of relating!

Both members of the couple must be enrolled Elon students and attend all sessions together.

Workshops will be offered on Mondays or Tuesdays.

Facilitator: Maya Oakley (moakley3@elon.edu) who is our Marriage and Family Therapy intern.

Tabletop role-playing games like Dungeons & Dragons, Pathfinder, and Quest allow participants to take on the persona of fictional characters and to complete daring adventures across mysterious worlds. This therapy group takes the core elements of these games but also challenges you to set goals that will improve your behavior and mindset in the real world.

In Dungeons, Dragons, & Therapy you will work with a clinician to create a fantasy character that is personalized to you and your goals. This character might excel at something with which you struggle or be designed you help you emphasize any given attribute. For example, if you wanted to practice speaking up and asking for what you need, you may design a character with assertive qualities. Within sessions of Dungeons, Dragons, & Therapy you will interact with other players not only to find treasures, solve puzzles, and converse with enigmatic individuals–but also to express meaningful parts of yourself.

No previous experiences with Dungeons and Dragons or other Role Playing Games is required. This therapy involves a simplified set of rules so that participants can focus on the interpersonal aspects of the game rather than learning complex rules. This group will not teach you how to formally play Dungeons and Dragons.

If you are interested in participating in this group in Spring 2025, please contact the game master/groups coordinator, Meredith Harrison (mharrison19@elon.edu), to schedule a pre-group screening.

Eat, Pray, Love is a five-week workshop designed to empower fem of core identified students at Elon University. The workshop is designed for people who are seeking self-awareness, self-love, and self-discovery. It’s designed to be interactive and fun, but you aren’t required to participate verbally if you’re not comfortable. Because of the nature of the work we will cover, the workshop will remain small. Each week will have a different theme based on our relationships with food (eat), spirituality or values (pray), and love (loving yourself and others).

Mondays 3:30-4:45 starting March 31st.

For questions or scheduling a pre-group screening, talk with your individual counselor or reach out to group facilitator, Cara Plasencia at cplasencia@elon.edu

Facilitator: Cara Plasencia

Feeling overwhelmed by college life? This Dialectical Behavior Therapy workshop is your emotional toolkit! Learn to navigate stress, anxiety, and relationship challenges like a pro. Master mindfulness, communication, and healthy coping skills to thrive, not just survive. DBT is like a superpower toolkit for your brain, helping you navigate tough emotions, handle stress more effectively, and build and maintain healthy relationships. Sign up and unlock your full potential!

Spring 2025 will be offered. Please reach out to the facilitator if you are interested in participating!

Facilitator: Tal Fish (tfish@elon.edu)

If you’re interested, talk to your individual counselor or email the facilitator.

Relationships play an important role in mental health. This therapy group is open to students who are interested in gaining greater self-awareness, understanding their relationships with others, and practicing healthier ways of relating to others. To foster connection and growth within the group, membership is limited, and participants are expected to commit to regular attendance throughout the semester. Group sessions are typically 1 ½ hours and held weekly throughout the semester.

Spring 2025 date/time TBD. Please reach out to the facilitators to schedule a pre-group appointment if you are interested in participating.

Facilitators Bonny Buckley (bbuckley2@elon.edu) and Charles Evans (gevans9@elon.edu).

W.A.V.E. is a semester long therapy group focused on building skills to better navigate life’s hardships through the complex but ever rewarding journey of learning to swim. This group is for people who have a desire to swim but are either afraid of water, struggle with body positivity, feel anxious when navigating new activities, or feel a combination of barriers. Fear, anxiety, self-doubt, and frustration are all feelings that can come up when it is time to swim, but conquering these feelings can propel us forward inside and outside of the water. Each week we will address one major stressor that life can present us and we will cover positive coping mechanisms to navigate them. We will then transition to the pool and and take what we have learned and apply it to the respective swim lesson. The overall goal at the end of our time together is a fortified sense of self, an ability to swim, and a newfound confidence in the ability to weather adversity and varying experiences.

Spring 2025 Fridays at 3pm.

Facilitator: Charles Evans (gevans9@elon.edu).

If you’re interested in participating, email facilitator or talk to your individual clinician for a pre-group appointment.

Ready to crush your self-care goals? Take care of your body and mind with BeWell, a partnership between Counseling Services and Campus Recreation & Wellness.

BeWell is a free group training program for students that promotes positive physical activity experiences in a supportive and community-oriented environment. Each session will consist of physical activity with a personal trainer and reflection with a counselor. By meeting with a personal trainer and a counselor each session, the goal is to increase positive mood states which will improve overall mental and physical health while increasing exercise adherence. While the exercise portion will be tailored to beginners and those that do not currently frequent the fitness center, the reflective component offers valuable insights for all participants, regardless of their background.

Email the facilitator if you’re interested in participating in a future semester.

Facilitator: Tumi Shadreck (ishadreck@elon.edu)

We offer a variety of groups, support spaces, and skill based workshops for our students, and all groups/workshops are completely free to Elon students!

Our “Show Up” Groups are spaces where no sign up or prior connection with Counseling Services is required. You can even bring a friend! Our support spaces are designed as “show up” groups and they offer ways to connect with peers who may share a similar identity or life experience with you. These may vary in frequency from weekly to monthly, and are often in conjunction with campus partners. Examples include Hues of Her, Loss Support Group, and Graduate Student Support Group.

Our “Sign Up” groups require signing up ahead of time (workshops), and may require a screening within Counseling Services to make sure these are a good fit for you (therapy groups).

Our workshops are designed to help students learn and practice adaptive skills for coping with common challenges they may face (e.g., stress, anxiety, relationships, depression, etc.). The structure is similar to a class with experiential activities. These are typically 3 sessions or less, so folx quickly learn new skills they can apply to their day to day. Students do not have to have prior connection with Counseling Services in order to attend, so feel free to sign up with a friend! We ask that folx sign up ahead of time so we can send reminder emails and make sure we have enough materials for all attendees. Examples include Nature Rx, Anxiety Toolbox, and BRIDGE.

Our therapy groups are spaces where the same group of people meets weekly for half or a whole semester. This provides an opportunity to build and deepen relationships with a small group of peers (typically around 5-8 people) while working on your personally identified concerns. Students have many reasons they may choose to join a therapy group (e.g., anxiety, feeling lonely, social anxiety, depression, trauma, stress, adjustment to college, relationship concerns, etc.). These groups require a student to speak with a counselor before entering a group to make sure the group will best meet their clinical needs and goals.  Instructions for how to sign up are listed under each group and workshop, or, you can always call counseling services for instructions on how to connect with a group.  These tend to meet weekly and there is an expectation that students will commit to attend regularly. Examples include Eat, Pray, Love, Understanding Myself and Others, LGBTQ+ Therapy Group, and Dungeons, Dragons, & Therapy.

In group therapy, five to ten people meet face-to-face with one or more trained group therapists and talk about what is troubling them. Members also give feedback to each other by expressing their own feelings about what someone says or does. This interaction gives group members an opportunity to try out new ways of behaving and to learn more about the way they interact with others in a safe environment. The content of the group sessions is confidential; what members talk about or disclose is not discussed outside the group.

When people come into a group and interact freely with other group members, they usually recreate those difficulties that brought them to group therapy in the first place. Under the skilled direction of a group therapist, the group is able to give support, offer alternatives, or gently confront the person. In this way the difficulty becomes resolved, alternative behaviors are learned, and the person develops new social techniques or ways of relating to people. During group therapy, people begin to see that they are not alone. Many people feel they are unique because of their problems, and it is encouraging to hear that other people have similar difficulties. In the climate of trust provided by the group, people feel free to care about and help each other.

Talk about what brought you to the counseling center in the first place. Tell the group members what is bothering you. If you need support, let the group know. If you think you need confrontation, let them know this also. It is important to tell people what you expect of them.

Unexpressed feelings are a major reason why people experience difficulties. Revealing your feelings is an important part of group and affects how much you will be helped. The appropriate disclosures will be those that relate directly to your present difficulty. How much you talk about yourself depends upon what you are comfortable with. If you have any questions about what might or might not be helpful, you can always ask the group.

You control what, how much, and when you share with the group. Most people find that when they feel safe enough to share what is troubling them, a group can be very helpful and affirming. We encourage you not to share what you are not ready to disclose. However, you can also be helped by listening to others and thinking about how what they are saying might apply to you.

Actually, group therapy is often more efficient than individual therapy for two reasons. First, you can benefit from the group even during sessions when you say little but listen carefully to others. You will find that you have much in common with other group members, and as they work on a concern, you can learn more about yourself. Secondly, group members will often bring up issues that strike a chord with you, but that you might not have been aware of or brought up yourself.

It is very important that group members feel safe. Group leaders are there to help develop a safe environment. Feedback is often difficult to hear. As group members come to trust and accept one another, they generally experience feedback and even confrontation as positive, as if it were coming from their best friend. One of the benefits of group therapy is the opportunity to receive feedback from others in a supportive environment. It is rare to find friends who will gently point out how you might be behaving in ways that hurt yourself or others, but this is precisely what group can offer. This will be done in a respectful, gentle way, so that you can hear it and make use of it.

Group therapy is being recommended to you because your intake counselor believes that it is the best way to address your concerns. We do not put people into group therapy because we don’t have space in individual therapy, or because we want to save time. We recommend group when it is the most effective method to help you. Your intake counselor can discuss with you why group is what we recommend for you.

Most people are anxious about being able to talk in group. Almost without exception, within a few sessions people find that they do begin to talk in the group. Group members remember what it is like to be new to the group, so you will most likely get a lot of support for beginning to talk in the group.